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BreakupHelper is a decision-support tool designed to bring clarity to one of life's most difficult choices. Using a blend of relationship psychology, statistical data, and AI analysis, we help you understand your relationship's health, identify core issues, and decide whether to work things out or walk away. Our goal is to empower you to act with confidence and self-respect, not confusion and anxiety.

This service is for anyone feeling stuck, confused, or uncertain about their relationship. Whether you're constantly second-guessing, feeling emotionally distant, or simply know something isn't right but can't put your finger on it, our tools are designed to help you untangle your feelings and see the situation for what it really is. It's for people who value clarity over ambiguity and are ready to make a change for their well-being.

Your life partner influences everything—from your daily happiness and mental health to your career ambitions and financial future. Research consistently shows that a healthy partnership is a cornerstone of a fulfilling life, while an unhealthy one can be a significant source of stress and regret. This decision is too important to be left to doubt and guesswork, which is why we built our tools to help you choose wisely.

Absolutely. Doubts are a normal part of any long-term relationship. The key is to understand their source. Are they fleeting concerns, or are they persistent red flags signaling deeper incompatibilities? Our assessment helps you distinguish between normal ups-and-downs and critical issues that need to be addressed, giving you a framework to understand what your doubts truly mean.

Yes. Fear of the unknown, of hurting someone, or of being alone are completely normal and are often what keep people in unhappy situations. Our service is designed to address this directly. By giving you a clear, data-backed reason for your decision (whether to stay or go), we help replace fear with confidence. We also provide tools and scripts to handle the conversation with respect and care, making a difficult process more manageable.

Our "Is This Relationship Right for Me?" assessment is the core of our service. You'll answer carefully designed questions about your relationship, and our AI will analyze your responses against thousands of data points from relationship psychology. It identifies patterns in communication, conflict resolution, and satisfaction levels to generate a personalized Relationship Score and a detailed action plan.

Once you submit your answers, you'll receive a comprehensive results page. This includes your unique Relationship Score, a visual breakdown of your relationship's strengths and weaknesses through various charts and graphs, and a personalized action plan. It’s a complete snapshot of your current situation.

Yes. Before you submit for the final analysis, you can go back and edit any of your answers. After you receive your results, you are welcome to restart the assessment and take it again as many times as you like with your active subscription.

To protect your privacy, we do not save your assessment answers or results on our servers. This means if you refresh or close the page, the information will be permanently gone. We strongly recommend you print the results page or save it as a PDF immediately. This is the only way to keep a record of your analysis.

This is a key feature of the Clarity plan. After receiving your results, Clarity users can ask our AI specific follow-up questions to get even more clarity (e.g., "Can you elaborate on the communication score?"). This interactive dialogue allows for a deeper, more personalized understanding of your situation. This feature is not available on the Hobby plan.

Access to the "Is This Relationship Right for Me?" assessment is a key feature of our paid plans. If you are unable to access it, you may be on the Free plan. Please upgrade your subscription on your dashboard to unlock this and other premium features.

Our users' safety is our highest priority. Our system includes a safety-first protocol designed to identify indicators of potentially abusive relationships (e.g., patterns of control, threats, or emotional harm).

If these indicators are detected, the standard analysis is immediately paused. Instead of a relationship score, we provide confidential resources, a safety action plan, and guidance on how to contact professional support organizations. We are committed to ensuring you get the right kind of help for your specific situation.

Your privacy is fundamental to our mission. We do not store the personal answers you provide in the assessment. All analysis happens in real-time, and once you leave the page, your specific responses are gone. Your account information is protected by industry-standard security, and we will never sell or share your personal data. Period.

Our tools provide data-driven insights based on established psychological patterns. However, they are not a substitute for professional legal, financial, or mental health advice. Every relationship is unique. We provide a powerful perspective to aid your decision-making, but we encourage you to use this information responsibly and proceed at your own risk.

Both plans unlock the core assessment and healing tools. The Clarity plan provides advanced access with our most nuanced AI model and gives you the exclusive opportunity to ask the AI follow-up questions about your result. You can see a full comparison on our pricing section.

Yes, you can cancel your subscription at any time directly from your dashboard—no questions asked. We do not offer refunds, but upon canceling, you will retain full access to all your plan's features until the end of your current billing cycle.

Creator Blueprints are real-world systems from real people who have successfully navigated a significant personal transformation. They are not magic bullets, but proven frameworks for goals like building confidence, improving relationship skills, or achieving physical and mental wellness.

While a creator's personal success serves as inspiration, it's important to remember that individual results depend entirely on your own consistency, effort, and commitment to the process.

Health & Safety Disclaimer: These guides are for informational purposes only and are not a substitute for professional medical advice. Please consult with a qualified professional before beginning any new fitness, nutrition, or mental health program.

Once you've purchased a Blueprint from our store, it becomes instantly accessible! Simply navigate to your dashboard, and you'll find a dedicated section for your purchased guides. Click on the one you bought, and you'll be directed to the full, interactive Blueprint.

Yes. Your trust is our priority, so every single Creator Blueprint is vetted by our team to ensure it's safe, effective, and built on proven principles. The guide you receive is a system the creator has personally used to achieve a significant goal. From there, the most important factor is you. With unwavering consistency and dedication, you can achieve remarkable results. Your commitment is the key to your success.

A breakup is a powerful catalyst for change. Focusing on a structured plan—whether it's for your body, your mind, or your daily habits—provides a tangible way to regain control and build self-esteem during a period of emotional vulnerability. It's a proven way to redirect negative energy into positive self-improvement, show yourself what you're capable of, and embrace your next chapter with renewed strength.

A Blueprint is a powerful road map, but true transformation is a holistic journey. For optimal results, you must also prioritize:

• Consistency: Showing up for yourself every day, even when you don't feel like it, is what builds momentum.
• Mindset: You must believe in the process and trust that your small, daily efforts will compound into massive change.
• Patience & Self-Compassion: There will be good days and bad days. The key is to be kind to yourself and not let a single misstep derail your entire journey.

Ignoring any of these pillars will significantly hinder your progress and overall well-being.

Our free weekly newsletter is designed to support your healing and growth journey. Every Monday, you'll receive concise, science-backed insights based on psychology research, real-life scripts to handle difficult conversations, and guided reflection prompts to foster clarity and purpose. It's pure value, with zero spam.

CalmPath is our guided emotional wellness tool, and it is a core feature of the Free Plan, accessible to everyone. After answering a few questions about your current mood (e.g., sad, angry), CalmPath provides personalized suggestions, calming exercises, and helpful resources designed to help you navigate your feelings and find your way back to a state of balance.

WeNeedToEnd.com is a partner tool designed to help you handle the difficult conversation of ending a relationship. It allows you to craft a clear, respectful, and personalized message explaining your decision. The service then sends this message for you, which includes a private link where the other person can read your full thoughts, giving them space to process the information.

MoveOnBro.com is a support resource for after the breakup. It's a place to find healing and perspective through shared stories, relatable content, and reassuring words that validate your feelings. It’s designed to remind you that you're not alone and to help you navigate the path forward.

Yes! A great way to show your support for our mission is by purchasing our merch. We currently sell shirts designed to empower and inspire.

All merch orders come with free shipping. As a thank you to our subscribers, all existing customers receive an automatic 10% discount. Please allow about 10 days for your order to arrive. Note: At this time, all shirt sales are final and we do not offer refunds.

Thank you for asking! Our primary goal is to provide tools that help people navigate difficult emotional decisions. We are committed to reinvesting our profits back into the service and into broader mental health initiatives, because we believe this work is incredibly important.

The best ways to support us are by upgrading to a Clarity subscription or by purchasing our merchandise. Both directly fund our ability to improve our tools and continue our mission.

We are a proudly independent company based in the vibrant tech community of North Carolina, USA.

The best way to reach us is by email. For any technical issues, billing questions, or feedback, please send a message to byebye@breakuphelper.com. We're a small team, but we do our best to respond within one business day.