"Right for Me?" Assessment
Our in-depth questionnaire uses psychology and data to generate your personalized score. Completely 100% confidential.
Get Started Now →Whether you're feeling stuck or unsafe, your peace of mind is the priority. We use science and psychology to provide clarity for any relationship, guiding the decision that shapes your future.
BreakupHelper is an AI-powered self-help tool and does not provide licensed therapy or professional mental health services. If you are in immediate danger or experiencing emotional distress, please reach out to a licensed mental health provider or contact a local crisis or safety hotline.
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Our process is designed to be simple and insightful, guiding you from confusion to a clear-headed decision, one step at a time.
Our in-depth questionnaire uses psychology and data to generate your personalized score. Completely 100% confidential.
Get Started Now →Receive at-a-glance charts comparing your relationship to key psychological and demographic benchmarks for success.
Get Started Now →Navigate your relationship with personalized guidance, whether staying or parting, generated in your tone and with care.
View Sample Report →Access support via our Resources page, personalized tools on CalmPath, and our weekly Relationship Email Coach.
Explore Resources →After your assessment, discover relevant discussions on Reddit. Our AI intelligently finds posts from real people navigating similar relationship situations, providing you with relatable community insights.
Get Your Assessment →Your connection is unique. Our tools are designed to honor that complexity, providing specific insights where generic advice falls short.
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Personalized Insight
We believe your most important decisions deserve more than vague suggestions. Our goal is to provide specific, empathetic, and actionable insights to help you move forward with confidence.
e.g. ChatGPT, Claude, etc.
Broad knowledge base
e.g. "Is my relationship healthy?"
Lacks personalized depth
A simple, 4-step process for getting the clarity you need.
Think of it as your personal Inside Out, mapping your feelings to move forward.
Have you navigated a significant life challenge and developed a personal system for healing and growth? Turn your hard-earned wisdom into a blueprint that can guide others.
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Discover frequently asked questions by new users of BreakupHelper, the relationship clarity tool for one of life's biggest decisions.
BreakupHelper is a decision-support tool designed to bring clarity to one of life's most difficult choices. Using a blend of relationship psychology, statistical data, and AI analysis, we help you understand your relationship's health, identify core issues, and decide whether to work things out or walk away.
Our "Is This Relationship Right for Me?" assessment is the core of our service. You'll answer carefully designed questions, and our AI will analyze your responses against thousands of data points from relationship psychology. It identifies patterns in communication and satisfaction to generate a personalized Relationship Score and a detailed action plan.
Your privacy is fundamental to our mission. We do not store the personal answers you provide in the assessment. All analysis happens in real-time, and once you leave the results page, your specific responses are permanently gone. Your account info is protected and we will never sell or share your personal data.
Our users' safety is our highest priority. Our system includes a safety-first protocol to identify indicators of potentially abusive relationships. If detected, the standard analysis is paused and we instead provide confidential resources, a safety action plan, and guidance on how to contact professional support organizations.
Yes, you can cancel your subscription at any time directly from your dashboard—no questions asked. We do not offer refunds, but upon canceling, you will retain full access to all your plan's features until the end of your current billing cycle.
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