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Work It Out or Walk Away?

Whether you're feeling stuck or unsafe, your peace of mind is the priority. We use science and psychology to provide clarity for any relationship, guiding the decision that shapes your future.

BreakupHelper is an AI-powered self-help tool and does not provide licensed therapy or professional mental health services. If you are in immediate danger or experiencing emotional distress, please reach out to a licensed mental health provider or contact a local crisis or safety hotline.

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What's the price of your happiness? This isn't a cost, it is an investment in clarity for one of life's biggest decisions. We have one purpose: to guide you through those choices with clarity and a commitment to your safety. Research consistently shows that a healthy partnership is a cornerstone of a fulfilling life.

A Decision That Defines Your Future

Your choice of partner is one of the most critical decisions you'll ever make, profoundly shaping your future, your success, and the foundation your children will build upon.

So, what is the price of your mental state? Your happiness? Isn't discovering and protecting that the whole meaning of life?

While many turn to generic AI like ChatGPT for guidance, they receive vague, non-committal answers. We don't do that. Our purpose is to provide the specific, data-driven clarity that a decision this important deserves.

Why We Built This

We've all been there. Confused, overthinking, stuck in something that doesn't feel right.

BreakupHelper exists because sometimes love isn't clear. One moment you feel close, the next you're second-guessing everything. I built this after realizing how many of us, myself and close friends included, have gone through the same emotional spiral. The late-night overthinking. The endless texting your group chat for advice. The constant "Am I the problem?"

This platform gives you a different kind of support. No vague inspiration quotes. No sugarcoating. Just honest insight powered by relationship psychology and real-life patterns. If you're trying to make sense of what you're feeling or wondering if it's time to let go, this helps you see the situation for what it really is.

Whether you're dealing with heartbreak, emotional distance, or just tired of feeling stuck or questioning your own safety in a relationship, you deserve clarity. BreakupHelper is here to help you move forward with perspective, not guesswork.

Our Mission

We are here to help you find clarity using psychology, statistics, and human nature. You deserve to make the right decision for your relationship with care and self-respect. Your privacy is our priority. We never store your data, so everything you share stays 100% confidential.

Our Safety-First Approach

Our approach is grounded in your safety. We combine compassionate understanding with data-driven AI. This analysis includes a safety-first protocol to provide immediate safety resources and support if any signs of abuse are detected.

Your Next Chapter

Our goal is to help you close this chapter with confidence and prepare you for what comes next, with insights built on a foundation of safety and respect.

Sometimes Letting Go is Better Than Holding On

Sometimes you're Elsa, and the healthiest thing is to just let it go.

I was so lost and just really confused. The AI assessment gave me the clarity I was so desperate for. It really helped me move forward.

A Relieved User

Wow, the AI-generated scripts are a total lifesaver. I seriously had no clue what to say, and it helped me find the words to be respectful but also firm.

A Grateful User

Honestly, this was a total game changer for me. I felt so much more prepared and way more confident going into that conversation.

A User from Texas

Worth every single penny. This tool saved me from weeks of anxiety. I finally feel like I have a clear plan.

Verified Customer

Using this site kind of felt like talking to a wise friend who doesn't take sides. The analysis of my whole situation was just spot-on.

A User from California

The step-by-step process made something that felt totally unthinkable actually feel manageable. So, so grateful I found this.

A Satisfied User

This is the support I had no idea I even needed. It helped me untangle all my feelings and actually communicate them clearly for once.

Verified Customer

As someone who absolutely avoids conflict, this was invaluable. The AI gave me the words to say when I just had none.

A Relieved User

This is probably the best tool for anyone struggling with a tough relationship decision. I can't recommend it enough.

A Happy Customer

I was really impressed with how nuanced the AI's feedback was. It actually felt personal, not like some generic advice.

A User from Florida

Finally, a way to deal with this kind of difficult topic with both logic and compassion. Thank you, BreakupHelper!

A Grateful User

I honestly feel like a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders. The clarity this site gives you is priceless for some peace of mind.

Verified Customer

A Guided Path to Clarity

Our process is designed to be simple and insightful, guiding you from confusion to a clear-headed decision, one step at a time.

"Right for Me?" Assessment

Our in-depth questionnaire uses psychology and data to generate your personalized score. Completely 100% confidential.

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Visual Relationship Score

Receive at-a-glance charts comparing your relationship to key psychological and demographic benchmarks for success.

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Personalized Guidance

Navigate your relationship with personalized guidance, whether staying or parting, generated in your tone and with care.

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Healing Resources

Access support via our Resources page, personalized tools on CalmPath, and our weekly Relationship Email Coach.

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Community Discussions

After your assessment, discover relevant discussions on Reddit. Our AI intelligently finds posts from real people navigating similar relationship situations, providing you with relatable community insights.

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Clarity for Your Relationship's Future

Your connection is unique. Our tools are designed to honor that complexity, providing specific insights where generic advice falls short.

How It Works

A simple, 4-step process for getting the clarity you need.

CalmPath - A Guided Journey to Healing

Think of it as your personal Inside Out, mapping your feelings to move forward.

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Have you navigated a significant life challenge and developed a personal system for healing and growth? Turn your hard-earned wisdom into a blueprint that can guide others.

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Find Your Path to Clarity

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Essential tools to begin your journey toward emotional clarity and well-being.

  • Access to CalmPath
  • Access to Healing Resources
  • Relationship Articles
  • View Blueprints & Become a Creator
  • Weekly E-mail Coach (optional)

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Your Personal relationship guide, always here for your mental health and clarity.

  • Everything in Free, plus:
  • Relationship Assessment
  • Visual Analysis with Charts
  • Speak instead of type (optional)
  • AI Reddit Community Search
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  • Safety-First Approach
  • 100% Confidential

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Common questions

Discover frequently asked questions by new users of BreakupHelper, the relationship clarity tool for one of life's biggest decisions.

What exactly is BreakupHelper? +

BreakupHelper is a decision-support tool designed to bring clarity to one of life's most difficult choices. Using a blend of relationship psychology, statistical data, and AI analysis, we help you understand your relationship's health, identify core issues, and decide whether to work things out or walk away.

How does the AI assessment work? +

Our "Is This Relationship Right for Me?" assessment is the core of our service. You'll answer carefully designed questions, and our AI will analyze your responses against thousands of data points from relationship psychology. It identifies patterns in communication and satisfaction to generate a personalized Relationship Score and a detailed action plan.

How do you handle my data and privacy? +

Your privacy is fundamental to our mission. We do not store the personal answers you provide in the assessment. All analysis happens in real-time, and once you leave the results page, your specific responses are permanently gone. Your account info is protected and we will never sell or share your personal data.

How do you handle unsafe situations? +

Our users' safety is our highest priority. Our system includes a safety-first protocol to identify indicators of potentially abusive relationships. If detected, the standard analysis is paused and we instead provide confidential resources, a safety action plan, and guidance on how to contact professional support organizations.

Can I cancel my subscription? +

Yes, you can cancel your subscription at any time directly from your dashboard—no questions asked. We do not offer refunds, but upon canceling, you will retain full access to all your plan's features until the end of your current billing cycle.

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